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Devasated 20:39 - Sep 12 with 10048 views

Just had the news that my severely disabled(Spina Bifida) and QPR loving brother Jim died this afternoon after a short illness.
I looked after him for over 30 years,fought tooth and nail against the odds for his care provision but for many years we were compleley two against the world.
When he was younger and more mobile I actually got him up to the White city to see a coiple of games(we lost of course) and the greyhound meetings.
We also went up to Marquee Club Wardour Street to see Rory Gallagher and Jimi Hendrix.
He enduted so much abuse at school and in later life when prople would take the piss - I had to "correct" one or two,,,,
Well at least he'sout of pain now.

Sorry about that.

[Post edited 12 Sep 20:47]

Poll:

Dykes - love him or hate him?

Devasated on 22:46 - Sep 12 with 1531 views

Lblock

If I had been lucky enough to have had a brother I’d of wanted a brother like yourself

May Jim rest in peace

Keep you chin up fella

Cherish and enjoy life.... this ain't no dress rehearsal

Devasated on 23:38 - Sep 12 with 1446 views

numptydumpty

Aww so sorry for your loss Sonofpugwash...

Rest in Eternal Peace Jim and I would truly believe he is in the great and beautiful place, he deserves, in however that works.

And sounds like you have done above and beyond the call of duty and that's so impressive that you did that.

Absolutely your brother would have been massively appreciative of your help.

Have worked with people with disabilities over long periods now and so many get bullied and discriminated against when such things are not supposed to happen anymore.

And actually it can often be family members who are the worst abusers so be very proud of your own actions Sonofpugwash .

RIP Jim.

[Post edited 13 Sep 2:18]

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Devasated on 23:59 - Sep 12 with 1430 views

hook_hoops

Sorry for your loss Pugwash. Jim was lucky to have you for a brother.

Devasated on 00:03 - Sep 13 with 1423 views

daveB

Sorry for your loss

Devasated on 00:40 - Sep 13 with 1391 views

PunteR

Really sorry to hear this mate. You've mentioned Jim a few times on LFW over the years so i was kind of aware of your situation. Must be a really tough time at the moment for you and the family.
I hope you can take solace in the fact you helped fight your brothers battles right too the end. You stood by him . Respect mate. xx

Occasional providers of half decent House music.

Devasated on 07:08 - Sep 13 with 1274 views

essextaxiboy

Sorry for your loss . look after yourself and family . RIP Jim

Devasated on 08:34 - Sep 13 with 1218 views

Kensal_Ranger

Sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.
But it's heartwarming and uplifting to know he was loved, cared for and shared experiences with you alongside.
R.I.P.

Devasated on 08:46 - Sep 13 with 1203 views

wortonr

I am in awe of your amazing dedication. The tributes and condolences here say a lot about what we share as supporters of our remarkable club.

Devasated on 09:18 - Sep 13 with 1152 views

bosh67

God bless Jim and god bless you for all your care for him. So sorry for your loss.

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Devasated on 09:43 - Sep 13 with 1135 views

terryb

RIP Jim.

Many condolences Pugwash.

Devasated on 09:52 - Sep 13 with 1132 views

W7Ranger

So sorry for your loss SoP.

Sounds like you all had a tough time but made the absolute most of what you could in very difficult circumstances.

RIP Jim.

Devasated on 09:57 - Sep 13 with 1129 views

Andybrat

Devasated on 09:52 - Sep 13 by W7Ranger
So sorry for your loss SoP. Sounds like you all had a tough time but made the absolute most of what you could in very difficult circumstances. RIP Jim.

Echo that, RIP

Devasated on 10:47 - Sep 13 with 1093 views

qprninja

Sad news, sorry to hear this. Sounds like you are a great brother and you helped him have a good life. Hope you're doing ok.

Devasated on 10:51 - Sep 13 with 1087 views

Sonofpugwash

Thanks so much for the messages of support guys,I'm in tears again now.
You would have like Jim,R's supporter whos favourite player was Rodney Marsh.He was also an afficianado of heavy Rock and classical music,a bit of an authority on Sir Christopher Wren and the Roman occupation of Britain.
Amongst that a very surreal sense of humour - he loved the Goon Show radio progs.As in life he was a battler to the end.
Further to his wishes I'm going for a no frills cremation but am probably going to be strugglind to achieve the wish of having his ashes compressed into a diamond and set into the wall of the Sistine Chapel!
Thank you all once again.This is the most wonderful site ever and filled with the most wonderful people.
Your's in appreciation Pugwash (real name Gareth,although everybody calls me Ki) ) x

[Post edited 13 Sep 10:53]

Poll:

Dykes - love him or hate him?

Devasated on 10:59 - Sep 13 with 1068 views

Paddyhoops

RIP . You fought the good fight.

Devasated on 11:15 - Sep 13 with 1056 views

Juzzie

So sorry to hear this. I've been aware of this situation for a long time and the way you have looked after him, supported him and loved him has been remarkable.

RIP Jim and my condolences to all the family.

Devasated on 11:28 - Sep 13 with 1019 views

stantheman10

Sorry for your loss

Devasated on 11:33 - Sep 13 with 1004 views

thehat

He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother

Sending all my love - Rest easy Jim xx

Devasated on 11:36 - Sep 13 with 999 views

Metallica_Hoop

RIP Jim.

He sounded like someone you could have a very interesting chat in the pub with.
All the best to you mate at this sad time.

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Devasated on 13:10 - Sep 13 with 936 views

BklynRanger

Sorry for your loss SPW, am sure he cherished those memories, and others.

You were there for him, that's what's important.

RIP Jim.

Devasated on 14:29 - Sep 13 with 845 views

SimonJames

So sorry for your loss.
And so despairing that so called humans made his life harder than it already was.
I hope you also have good memories to hold on to.
Rest in peace Jim.

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Devasated on 15:50 - Sep 13 with 758 views

A40Bosh

Very sorry to hear your terrible new mate.

RIP Jim.

Look after yourself mate, whilst it is a very personal journey and one I find myself going through myself these last 3 months and my brother was James too, let it out if you can, however it needs to, talk and cry.

The good memories will brighten as the memories of the struggles and hardship begin to fade in time.

Take care of yourself mate and God bless Jim and that he is out of pain.

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With no leg room, knees killing me, do I just go now or stay for the 2nd half o?

Devasated on 16:16 - Sep 13 with 718 views

Mick_S

Devasated on 11:33 - Sep 13 by thehat
He Ain't Heavy, He's My Brother Sending all my love - Rest easy Jim xx

That’s lovely.

Respect Pug.

Did I ever mention that I was in Minder?

Devasated on 16:21 - Sep 13 with 711 views

gr1

So sorry for your loss.

Try and stay strong.

RIP

Devasated on 16:52 - Sep 13 with 677 views

Harbour

Condolences on your loss may your brother RIP. Look after yourself at this sad time you were a great brother be proud ..

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